A study, conducted by the University of Melbourne and the Pink Elephants Support Network, interviewed 400 women who had experienced a miscarriage. It found that most of the women had not been offered support services or provided with information following their miscarriage. This lack of support can often lead to mental health issues and emotional stress in later pregnancies.
Miscarriage is common and largely experienced privately, shrouded in silence. One quarter of pregnancies end in miscarriage before 12 weeks, and one in three pregnancies in women over 35 ends in miscarriage.
Director of Pink Elephants Samantha Payne labelled miscarriage “disenfranchised grief”, indicating that if left to their own devices, women can often internalise their grief. This can lead to anxiety and/or depression following a miscarriage.
“We found 88 per cent of women who experienced a miscarriage in the last two years wanted support,” Payne told the Sydney Morning Herald.
A lack of validation of the grief women often experience after a miscarriage can go on to prevent women enjoying healthy future pregnancies.
Payne says there is a gap in the healthcare system and she would be like to see healthcare professionals providing women with the emotional support they need after a miscarriage. More effort in connecting women with support services is also necessary.
Tahyna MacManus is an ambassador for Pink Elephants. She had three miscarriages but later went on to have two healthy pregnancies.
She says that the trauma from her earlier miscarriages greatly affected her mental health. She also felt emotionally detached and scared during her later, healthy pregnancies.
MacManus went home after her first miscarriage, feeling “like a number” and was never offered any additional information or referred to support services. In time, she did her own research and discovered Pink Elephants, a charity committed to helping women through pregnancy loss. Hearing stories of similar experiences also helped.
“I wouldn’t want someone else to go through what I went through,” McManus said.